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Quarrels, sadness, and tears
are deeply draining.
To move forward
and stop living in the past
is what we both need
to fulfill our purpose.
If our decision
is to stay together,
then let us work together.
Our emotions are strong,
and letting go of past events
is never easy.
Still, I choose to put the past to rest.
At times, my thoughts may wander,
but the work before me is clear.
We must forgive one another
for all our mistakes.
My pledge to you, starting now,
is to learn how to trust again.
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Jealousy once took hold of my heart
and stirred anger within me.
But as I relearn trust,
those feelings too will fade.
As I come to know
the new you,
I still pledge
my undying love and affection.
Your help in moving forward matters,
as heavy as it may feel at times.
If you love me,
the effort will be worth it —
for I am a good man.
I have always cared for you
as your husband,
and I will continue to do so.
I promise to be more sensitive
to your feelings —
please help me as I learn.
Let us be open and honest
with each other at all times.
The guilt you carry
is too heavy for your heart.
As I heal,
I hope it helps you heal as well.
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My desire is not for you
to relive the past,
but for us to build
a brighter future
for our family.
As we heal together,
I hope you will learn
how to release your heart
back to me.
Commitment, reassurance, and security —
we both need these
from one another.
We have shared many years
of beautiful memories
worth treasuring.
Let us continue
to create new ones —
for us,
and for our son.
We can make it together
if we truly try.
Let us remember
how sensitive and fragile
our emotions are right now.
Be considerate
of each other’s hearts
before acting.
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When one of us is hurt,
let there be
an immediate apology
offered with empathy.
I am now convinced
that our wilderness
was ordained —
for what purpose,
I do not yet know.
But I believe
divine intervention
has stepped in
to guide us through this trial,
whether we see it
or not.
Let us prove
that we can do this —
and restore the marital sanctuary
God blessed us with.
His love
is with us forever.
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